What’s Your Striving Style?
Hey friends,
I’ve got something new for you, and I’m really excited about it.
It's a quick 60 second quiz I've been quietly building behind the scenes that helps you understand something most of us never think to question—your striving style.
Here’s why this matters.
We all develop a way of moving through life that’s shaped by who we thought we had to be to feel safe, accepted, or successful.
That default mode? That’s your striving style.
It’s usually not conscious—but it's running the show.
For some of us, it looks like never slowing down, always pushing, always proving.
For others, it’s staying small, staying quiet, avoiding anything that might bring attention or risk.
These patterns play out in how we lead, how we parent, how we relate to others, and how we treat ourselves.
And while they may have helped us succeed at one point, over time, they start holding us back.
Eventually, you hit a point where the success doesn’t feel as satisfying, the pressure feels heavier, and the way you've been operating starts to wear you down.
You might feel more reactive. More tired. Less present.
And yet, the thought of doing it differently feels risky—because this is the only way you’ve ever known.
That’s the edge.
And it’s often the signal that you’ve outgrown your striving style.
I know because I’ve lived it.
For years, I believed that if I just stayed ahead—one more achievement, one more win—I’d finally feel like enough.
But the harder I pushed, the more disconnected I felt.
It took me a long time to realize that the version of me I was trying to protect wasn’t actually me.
It was a version I created to survive.
What I needed wasn’t more success.
I needed to see that the striving style that once helped me survive was now keeping me stuck.
That’s exactly what this quiz is designed to give you.
It helps you name your specific striving style that's been driving your life.
And more importantly, it gives you a personalized plan to shift out of it so you cna build the capacity to live and lead from who you really are.
This isn’t about doing less or giving up.
It's about getting free.
Take the quiz.
It’s quick, free, and might just be the most important 60 seconds you spend today.
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As always, I'm rooting for you. We're in this together.
-Caleb